Sharing Your Home with Strangers: What Does the Future Hold for the Co-Living Craze?


© Danist Sey Peng

© Danist Sey Peng

What if your apartment was more than just a place to live? What if it was a catalyst for social interactions? Or what if it removed the everyday tedious tasks of cleaning, paying bills, and buying furnishings? Co-living, a modern form of housing where residents share living spaces, is aiming to do just that.

Co-living is growing in popularity in major cities such as London and New York, where increasing housing prices are forcing residents to look at new and adaptive ways to rent in the city. When we discussed the ambitions and inspirations behind the co-living movement in 2016, it was still a concept that was in its relatively experimental stages. Today, co-living is more focused in its mission, and has found success by pushing people together through a collection of common themes: a yearning for social connection, participation in an increasingly shared economy, and the affordability of a convenient housing solution.

In response to their prediction that co-living will increase in popularity, IKEA’s research Lab SPACE10 and digital designers Anton & Irene launched One Shared House 2030, a global online survey that aims to determine not only how people would like to live together, but also what they would be willing to share—or not—with their fellow residents.The ultimate goal of the survey was to understand how co-living designs can be improved based on what types of spaces and freedoms residents prefer.

More than 7,000 people from almost 150 countries took the survey, and the results are a little surprising. Here’s what SPACE10 learned about what people think about the concept of co-living:

  • Most people would prefer to live in the smallest possible community—no more than 4–10 people
  • People would prefer to live with a different mix of backgrounds and ages
  • The most popular members to participate would be couples without children, and single women
  • The least favorable would be babies and teenagers—and single dads if you live in Asia
  • People would prefer to live in the city, even when self-driving cars make it easier to commute
  • The main reason people say they’d want to co-live is to socialize with others
  • They’d also want their own private space that’s off limits to others
  • A lack of privacy would be the biggest concern for most people
  • For residents over 60 the greatest concern would be having arguments and other people’s mess
  • People would be most willing to share the internet, garden, kitchen, utilities, and workspaces
  • But they would rather share cleaning responsibilities than groceries
  • Sharing bedrooms would definitely be off limits
  • And most people would prefer to have their own bathroom, too
  • Democratic principles would run strong in the shared house
  • People would prefer to vote on new members, rather than have the decision taken for them
  • And most would prefer to have equal ownership of their shared house
  • The most important qualities of housemates are cleanliness, honesty, and being considerate
  • The least important qualities are being handy, funny, and attractive
  • Most people would be willing to pay for extra services, like having healthy food delivered often
  • People would prefer to furnish their own space—and let designers furnish the common areas
  • People may disagree about many things, but pets will be very welcome in the shared house

Strangely, what we can tell from these results is that what co-living communities such as Common and WeLive are actually providing is largely the opposite of what people most desire in these unique living situations.

While residents wanted to share a home with 4 to 10 people, most co-living companies are designing giant skyscrapers which house hundreds of people, losing the intimacy of having just a few roommates. WeLive is building a building in Seattle that will house more than 384 co-living residents and Ollie, another emerging company, is launching its own program which will settle almost 500 apartments in a single co-living house in Queens, New York. If people are most interested in developing social relationships, then why are these companies looking more towards the scale of a hotel?


© Pujohn Das

© Pujohn Das

It seems from this SPACE10 survey that no co-living company has yet to develop the ideal living situation that strikes a balance between the scales of large housing and intimate human interaction. Perhaps this is the problem with the WeLive and Common housing model. Instead of aiming to understand what potential residents want to have in their homes, the model is dictated by what each company prefers, forcing their target demographic of dwellers to adapt to the specifics of what their living situation will be, rather than the other way around.

This disconnect between the SPACE10 survey and the actuality of co-living might be largely due to the fact that the survey was taken by a diverse group of people, while most co-living models currently only market to a specific demographic: younger residents, many of whom are new to the city. This target market may not know exactly what type of housing they want to live in, so they seek out a convenient and temporary solution where all of the work of buying furniture, paying utilities, and cleaning services are sold in one package.

Moving forward, the success of co-living could come through a few different practices. Companies could either increase their appeal to the younger demographic, finding ways to make their living situation even more convenient, or they could design a variety of spaces to rent to residents based on what each individual person may prefer. In the end, it comes down to a factor of trade-offs. Would you rather feel like your apartment is a megalopolis of random roommates but have every amenity imaginable? Or would you prefer an intimate loft with shared with a tight-knit, ad-hoc family but have to go out of your way for everything?